Sunday 1 May 2016

May 1, 2016 sermon: Understanding The Power Of Love

“If you love me, you will keep my commandments. And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Advocate, to be with you forever. This is the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees him nor knows him. You know him, because he abides with you, and he will be in you. I will not leave you orphaned; I am coming to you. In a little while the world will no longer see me, but you will see me; because I live, you also will live. On that day you will know that I am in my Father, and you in me, and I in you. They who have my commandments and keep them are those who love me; and those who love me will be loved by my Father, and I will love them and reveal myself to them.” Judas (not Iscariot) said to him, “Lord, how is it that you will reveal yourself to us, and not to the world?” Jesus answered him, “Those who love me will keep my word, and my Father will love them, and we will come to them and make our home with them. Whoever does not love me does not keep my words; and the word that you hear is not mine, but is from the Father who sent me. I have said these things to you while I am still with you. But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you everything, and remind you of all that I have said to you. Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled, and do not let them be afraid. You heard me say to you, ‘I am going away, and I am coming to you.’ If you loved me, you would rejoice that I am going to the Father, because the Father is greater than I. And now I have told you this before it occurs, so that when it does occur, you may believe. I will no longer talk much with you, for the ruler of this world is coming. He has no power over me; but I do as the Father has commanded me, so that the world may know that I love the Father. Rise, let us be on our way.
(John 14:15-31)

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     I thought that the words from LaToya Jackson that I've had printed in the bulletin this morning were particularly relevant to our subject today and also very poignant. “I'll never stop dreaming that one day we can be a real family, together, all of us laughing and talking, loving and understanding, not looking at the past but only to the future.” LaToya Jackson, of course, is a part of the famous Jackson family – she's the sister of the late Michael Jackson, whose own death at a very early age just a few years ago sort of highlighted what you could call the tragedy that has surrounded this family. The Jacksons experienced jealousy and competition with one another. Siblings were often pitted against each other; sometimes the children (or at least some of them) were pitted against the parents. It was a very successful family, but I think it's fair to say that at least at times it was also a dysfunctional family, and sometimes it wasn't a very happy family. And those words from LaToya struck me as very sad. She seems to be saying that they weren't a real family; that there wasn't much laughing or talking or loving or understanding; that they were fixated on past hurts and slights and disagreements. There was an element of lament in those words: “I'll never stop dreaming.” They made me start to wonder about the power of love; about love's ability to heal past wounds and to create new beginnings. They made me grateful for the hope and dreams that love can provide to us.

     The Bible speaks a lot about love. Jesus spoke a lot about love. All the different ways Jesus tells us to love represent to me the ethical heart of Christianity; the engine that moves the gospel forward. When Christians stop acting lovingly - as we tragically do all too often – we dishonour the gospel and Jesus and our faith; we prove ourselves to be hypocrites – because it’s often those Christians who stop acting lovingly who nevertheless are able to quote Bible verses about love word for word. I think Jesus helps us in this passage to understand what love is. Love for Jesus is to love others, simply because that's what God wants us to do. So, “if you love me, keep my commands.” Essentially the commands of Jesus are to love widely and extravagantly – to love God, one another, our neighbours and even our enemies. That’s an extravagant love, indeed!

     Jesus helps us to understand love by using his relationship with his Father as an illustration of love. Jesus loves the Father and does exactly what the Father asks him to do. That, of course, is at least in part a reference to the cross. The cross is God's love. The cross is what teaches us about love most powerfully and most graphically. The cross tells me that if I truly live in love – in the kind of love that Jesus calls me to live by – then I may pay a steep price for that love, and I have to be prepared for that. And if I back down, and choose not to live in love even though I know that God wants me to live in love then I'm becoming an adversary of God; I’m not living a godly or faithful life, and I’m opposing the way of God revealed through Jesus. Love is of God, and love is costly. We throw the word “love” around far too easily in today’s world, and perhaps the concept of love becomes cheapened as a result, but the love that Jesus calls us to is not cheap and the love that Jesus calls us to is not easy. The love shown by the cross is vastly different than the love spoken of by someone who says “I love chocolate,” or “I love going to Florida.” The love shown by Jesus is love poured out for others; the love we often speak of is the love of something enjoyable that we get for ourselves. And – as costly as the love that Jesus calls us to can be - if I choose not to love as Jesus loved because I'm not willing to pay the price of that love, then I'm opposing God. That's the message I take from this passage.

     In some background reading I was doing while I was preparing this sermon I came across some words written by a man named Alan Brehm. He’s the minister of Hickman Presbyterian Church in Hickman, Nebraska. There’s nothing particularly earth-shaking about what he wrote, but I thought it summed up the power of God’s love quite well: “Jesus said that if we love him, we'll follow his teachings, his way of life, his example, simply because the love we have for him compels us to do so.”

     Our love for Jesus “compels us” to do what Jesus wants us to do, and what Jesus wants us to do is to  take that love that he’s given to us and let it overflow in love for the entire world. “Compels” is an interesting word to use, and I thought it made a powerful point. To be compelled isn’t the same as to be forced. To be forced to do something means that you do it against your will; that you do it in spite of whoever it is who’s forcing you to do this. But to be compelled is really to be transformed. To be compelled to do something means that we do it because it’s become a part of who and what we are; because it’s become a part of our identity. Paul used that same word in 2 Corinthians: “Christ’s love compels us,” he wrote. It compels us to be willing to be changed into what God would want us to be. It compels we who are loved to offer love to others. Huey Lewis and the News recorded a song called “The Power Of Love” for the movie Back To The Future:

The power of love is a curious thing
Make a one man weep, make another man sing
Change a hawk to a little white dove
More than a feeling that's the power of love.

     The power of love affects us and changes us. Once we’re filled with the love of Christ we will never be the same again. Our hope is to be filled with the love of Christ. The love of Christ is what gives us hope for the future – hope that all that doesn’t work in our lives can work in our lives. That’s the power of love.

     I find myself going back to where I started – to the words of  LaToya Jackson: “I'll never stop dreaming that one day we can be a real family, together, all of us laughing and talking, loving and understanding, not looking at the past but only to the future.” Focus on the last four words: “only to the future.” Ultimately the power of God's love helps to look toward a future of hope, where the things that aren’t working very well in our lives right now will work; where the hurts of the past will be forgotten. LaToya Jackson hopes that her family might one day be a real family – laughing and talking and loving and understanding.” God's love will eventually break down all barriers and make us all to be a family. That’s the power of love!

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